Romans
Text: Romans 12:9-11. Theme:
How is your love life?
Introduction: Reading: Romans 12:9-11.
“Let love be without falseness. Hate what is
evil. Cling to what is good. Be
kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honour giving
preference to one another; not lagging in diligence, fervent in spirit,
serving the Lord” Romans 12:9-11.
Allow me to introduce
to you two imaginary Christians: Both are saved, but each is living the Christian
life entirely differently from one another, they are opposites.
Miserable Jack
Though saved, he has an
unhealthy love life with Jesus. He always has a smile and shakes hands, but
something does not ring true. He is totally interested in himself. His attitude
is what is in it for me? He never served much in church. He complains about things
but is never a part of the solution. He has no devotions, no walk with God. He
rarely opens his Bible and prays only over food, (if he remembers to).
Hallelujah Jill
She also smiles and greets
you, and it seems real. She is excited about the things of God and has a real
walk with God. She is always trying to be a blessing to others in the church
she serves in.
What is the difference?
It is their love life. Love = agape.
Agape love is unselfish. It is sacrificial and self-giving. Greek literature
hardly ever uses this word. It is so uncommon in worldly literature because it
was in their culture a sign of weakness. It is a dog-eat-dog world, you have
got to look out for number one, it is every man for himself!
But Agape love is the
supreme virtue of a true believer. It is what Christianity is all about. It is
the keynote of the Christian. After Jesus washed the disciples’ feet (a task
reserved for the lowest slaves) He said, here is a new commandment, “love one another,” and that is how the
world will know you are My followers!
Many Christians just
play the part. But how is your Love Life? The qualities of a healthy spiritual
love life include:
1. CONVICTION, VERSE 9.
“Let love be without falseness. Hate what is evil. Cling to what is
good.”
Conviction is to love
God, hate sin, and serve others. The true test of spiritual love is not if you
can raise your hands during a worship song, it is the choice of a holy walk
with God! Real love is not insipid emotion. It is not letting people do what
they please. Real love draws lines and has some convictions about right and
wrong.
It is impossible to
absolutely love God without hating sin.
The doctor that loves to bring health hates disease.
The fireman that loves to save people hates fire.
The Christian that loves Jesus hates sin. “You who love the Lord, hate
evil!” Psalm 97:10.
God is love. It was
love that motivated Him to allow Jesus to die for us, “For God so loved the world that
He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish
but have everlasting life” John 3:16. He is love, He loves
sinners, but He hates their sin!
Do not allow yourself
to become so deadened by this world that you stop hating sin. We are attacked by
sin all around us and worldly standards are dropping all the time. The only
real safeguard against sin is that we continue to be shocked by it!
“The fear of the Lord is
to hate evil; pride and arrogance and the evil way and the perverse mouth I
hate” Proverbs 8:13.
“Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he
who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body” 1 Corinthians 6:18.
2. AFFECTION, VERSE 10.
“Be kindly affectionate to one
another with brotherly love, in honour giving preference to one another.”
Affection is when your
love life is right, it will show up in the way you treat others.
Preferring one another
means making them more important than you! It is the opposite of selfishness.
On Facebook and like, people reveal what is most important to them. Often, they
talk about themselves.
Real love shows up with
kindness and a positive outlook. It can be a tough few minutes being in the
presence of a person with no love in their life, but imagine BEING them. Think
of all the time they spend with that person looking back at them from the
mirror!
Conviction is your
position. Affection is your character. We need the balance of getting both
right. If your love life is right, it will affect your character. Love is action. It makes you do the
right things. It leads you to serve others. The happiest person is the giver.
3. FERVENT, VERSE 11.
“Not lagging in diligence, fervent
in spirit, serving the Lord.”
Enthusiasm about God’s
business. The church seems split today. You are either excited about God or
not, for there is no middle ground.
Football supporters get
a lot of stick about their enthusiasm for their sport and team. Always talking
about the goals and the players, willing to pay anything not to miss a match,
come rain or shine. The same goes that follow fashion, pop music, the film
world, etc. And such were the likes of us.
Becoming a Christian
should not knock the enthusiasm out of us. If anything, we have found the
perfect team, the perfect leader, and His name is Jesus. You may not feel like
you have a lot to offer, but you can be enthusiastic and fervent in spirit!
Conclusion:
A small girl told her
mother about her dolls: I love and love them, but they never love me back. Does
God feel that about us? How is your love life?